An article on parent
So many children complain that their
parents nag them about so many things like cleaning their room, studying, etc. In
general, children should listen their parents. It is a basic unsaid principle
that is followed by almost all the families. Though, listening to parents can
be annoying for some kids, but remember dear angels that your parents want the
best for you and they will never ask you to do anything that might hurt you in
any way.
As youngsters you can create several
‘what if’ scenarios concerning your parents’ ideas like ‘what if my mother’s
choice in clothing will not be as good as my other friends’, ‘what if I don’t
like the coaching classes that my dad chose for me’, ‘what if my project idea
suggested by mom would not be good’ and similar thoughts. However, no matter
what the outcome of the suggestions or rules made by your parents is, they
always want best for you. And you must not forget that parents are responsible
for the actions of their children, so it is only reasonable to expect a parent
to teach their children right from wrong.
Parents may reprimand, lecture or
even punish you for your actions, but this is all needed and is considered age
appropriate until you learn that a particular action is not acceptable
behaviour. What parents view as acceptable behaviour can vary greatly but that
only indicates what the parents consider good for you at particular time.
Parents ensure that you enjoy the common rights for a proper diet, housing,
health care, education and not live in fear or abuse. Freedoms always increase
in line with your age and maturity level.
However, the role of a parent is to
help you become an adult who is a responsible law abiding citizen and who can
function independently and takes responsibility for what she/he says and does.
This is what parents want for the child and even if you think you are mature
enough to deal with the world, it is definitely soothing that someone is there
to guide you constantly and helps you in becoming a better person. So next time,
your parents want you to do something, think about the positive long term
outcome of following their advice or instruction.
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